This is Not My Wife

This article is a filler, I will admit. It’s an article I promised to Kai (a fellow blogger) for how many days now but still failed to do so until up to the time this article hits its final period.

It’s something about my past. It’s something I’ve long been keeping in my picture folders for years. And it’s something my wife (present) knows very little about. Since Valentine’s day is fast approaching, one of the many people I miss so much is the child in the pictures (not her mom). She’s no child of mine (biologically) but I was there when she was born and I felt like an instant dad the moment I saw her smile on her first day of existence outside the womb. My relationship with her mother is none of your business. Hahaha!

I don’t want to elaborate on things for now. Maybe I will let you speculate. Let’s just say, the child is my child who never really was and she occupies a very special space in my heart.

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46 Comments on “This is Not My Wife”

FRANCINE on February 6th, 2008 at 8:07 pm

shes one lovely girl. shes fortunate enough to have a dad like you

FRANCINE’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday

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Jennie on February 6th, 2008 at 8:14 pm

Awww…. that’s so sweet. I love her smile. How old is she now?
Jennie’s last blog post..Sick

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bregie on February 6th, 2008 at 9:04 pm

master ang cute ng baby…. how old she is?

bregie’s last blog post..Let’s Join Master Jessie’s Blog Contest

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Scotty's Princess on February 6th, 2008 at 9:06 pm

Hmmmmm. I would love to speculate, hahaha! Pero it’s none of your business what’s running through my mind now, hehehe! Anyway kuya,she’s a lucky girl for having you as her dad. Whatever the story behind between her Mom and you, Im sure as hell she is grateful coz she has you in her life. Sana maambunan mo sya kahit konti ng brilliant mind mo, hehehe!

Scotty’s Princess’s last blog post..5-Star Award

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jessie on February 6th, 2008 at 9:08 pm

@ All,

She’s 5 years old and growing up so beautiful… Makulit nga lang dahil matalino but she’s very sweet. Maka-’Tatay’ yan eh.

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Laarni on February 6th, 2008 at 9:15 pm

How cute!!
Laarni’s last blog post..Ashes and Boracay!

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Buzzing with Ange on February 6th, 2008 at 9:29 pm

Hi Jessie… I think she is gorgeous and whatever the circumstances, my wish is that you get to see her soon… perhaps for Valentines Day!

Buzzing with Ange’s last blog post..Beaming the Beatles Across the Universe

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jessie on February 6th, 2008 at 9:42 pm

@ Buzzing with Ange,

Thanks so much… Take good care my friend and happy blogging!

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elaine on February 6th, 2008 at 10:06 pm

Hmmmm Kuya Jessie you are making me ponder about what you wrote hehe. Anyway, she’s lucky to have you as her “Father” figure
elaine’s last blog post..My Mushy Entrecard Contest

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Kai on February 6th, 2008 at 10:20 pm

owh finally! ang cute cute! ganyan ako kabilog when i was little! haha. and my dad used to tie my hair like that! awww.. she’ll grow up ahem, pretty. hahaha! and im sure of that

thx for finally posting it kuya jess.

Kai’s last blog post..Eleven Minutes

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jps61974 on February 6th, 2008 at 10:37 pm

@ Elaine,

Hehehe! Secret muna ang sagot ko dyan… But you’re right in saying that she’s lucky.

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jps61974 on February 6th, 2008 at 10:39 pm

@ Kai,

As promised… I totally agree that she’ll grow up beautiful… Ngayon pa lang eh madami nang admirers ang anak ko, how much more paglaki nya?

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Amor on February 6th, 2008 at 11:06 pm

…none of your business…I don’t want to elaborate on things for now. Hmmm, ano kaya yun *intrigued* esep, esep…

Hope you get to see your adorable ‘instant daughter’ soon!

Amor’s last blog post..Get Featured on Jessie’s PR4 Blog

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laling on February 7th, 2008 at 2:24 am

Hi Jessie..
Hehehe.. Honestly you look handsome in that picture..I thinks because you sincere with your heart.”Smile never Lies”

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laling on February 7th, 2008 at 2:28 am

One more think..Can I know how woman can inspired you to your blogging job..?

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Lisa on February 7th, 2008 at 2:28 am

I’ll make a guess. Siguro pamangkin mo ang cute na batang yan o dili kaya anak ng pamangkin mo, he-he! Anyway, it’s none of my business, just making a guess gayyem.

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Matt on February 7th, 2008 at 4:41 am

It’s always sad when you have something in your life so great and pure and lose it…to no fault of your own. Hope this picture brings you happiness more than sadness.

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karmi on February 7th, 2008 at 5:04 am

cutie baby kuya..
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Jennie on February 7th, 2008 at 8:30 am

When did you last see her kuya?

Jennie’s last blog post..Healing

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Rickavieves on February 7th, 2008 at 10:11 am

adorable girl c,”) nice smile!

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manilenya on February 7th, 2008 at 10:17 am

at least sya may tatay tatayan lol… hehehe para tuloy naghihimagsik loob ko kung bakit yung anak ko e walang tatay lol….wag ka alala bebe di ako naasar..ewan ko lang yung wife mo lol!

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Ambo on February 7th, 2008 at 10:51 am

Nice post brother. Basta pagdating sa mga bata mababaw ang puso ko. Swerte nya at nakakita siya ng taong tulad mo. Keep up brother!

Ambo’s last blog post..How To Cook Tikoy

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Junelle on February 7th, 2008 at 11:07 am

My guess, she is about 3 years old in the picture She’s like my daughter

Good of you to find it in your heart to treat someone as your child even if biologically not yours.

I hope, one day I would find a Man that would accept me fully, together with my children.

Salamat sa pag bisita sa blog ko lagi
Junelle’s last blog post..Diniwid Scam

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shiera on February 7th, 2008 at 11:36 am

another glimpse of Jessie’s personal aspect!
She’s so cute!
But… I’m curious about “the” story
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jps61974 on February 7th, 2008 at 11:57 am

@ Amor,

Secret ko muna yun, fren… Ayokong maging public figure. Hehehe! Basta iintrigahin muna kita for now.

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jps61974 on February 7th, 2008 at 12:06 pm

@ Laling,
Thanks for the compliment.
Of course I will admit that a woman is my inspiration to write. Ironically, it’s not the woman in the photo. Hehehe!

@ Lisa,
Secret gayyem… Diak kayat ibaga. hahaha!

@ Matt,
Thanks for dropping by. You’re always welcome to drop by again.

@ Karmi & Rickavieves,
Mana sa kin. Hehehe!

@ Jennie,
I last saw her last year pa.

@ Manilenya,
Bebe, sanay na ang misis ko sa mga ganito. Hahaha!
Hayaan mo, akin na ang BIODATA mo at ihanap natin ng matinong tatay ang dyunanak mo.

@ Ambo,
Naku, bro pareho tayo… Attached ako sa mga kids. Sana nga lumaki sya nang mabuti at matino eh. That’s my only wish for her.

@ Shiera,
Sis, mong mo kong intrigahin. Hahaha! Bubwelo pa ko nang matagal bago ko sabihin ang “story” behind the pictures.

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manilenya on February 7th, 2008 at 1:10 pm

mwahehehe wag na di na kailangan lol!

manilenya’s last blog post..Come On Baby Do The Locomotion With Me..

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jps61974 on February 7th, 2008 at 1:29 pm

@ manilenya,

Bebe,

Darating din si Mr. Right… I’m hopeful soon eh matagpuan ka na nya. You deserve to be happy.

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Joy on February 7th, 2008 at 1:36 pm

Na touch naman ako..You are close to Angels. Alam mo Jessie hindi lang ako ang nagkaproblema sa ie eh? Lots of bloggers. I read the issue in PPP and it was due to ITK codes. Take a read at this http://developer.payperpost.com/2008/02/internet-explor.html
thank you very much for the concern Jessie.

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jessie on February 7th, 2008 at 1:51 pm

@ Junelle,

I’ll include you in my prayers my dear friend. I know how difficult it is to raise your kids on your own and I sincerely admire you for the courage and strength you’ve shown in carrying the burdens all by yourself.

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jessie on February 7th, 2008 at 1:52 pm

@ Joy,

I’ve read the article… Now I know.

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juliana on February 8th, 2008 at 6:19 am

hala jessie, ammok sa dayta mom na. uray sika, ket you really look familiar . cute nga ang sarap pisilin ang pisngi.

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Madel on February 8th, 2008 at 11:40 pm

cute sya nangurot pa hehehee

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jps61974 on February 9th, 2008 at 10:35 pm

@ Madel,

She’s my little angel…

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manilenya on February 11th, 2008 at 8:50 am

uy tats naman ako dyan bebe…pero di ako looking wahehehehe!!!

manilenya’s last blog post..I would rather….

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jps61974 on February 11th, 2008 at 6:26 pm

@ manilenya,

Hehehe! Di mo ba inakala, bebe, na malambot ang puso ko sa mga bata?

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manilenya on February 11th, 2008 at 9:30 pm

di naman..di ko lang naisip lol!

manilenya’s last blog post..I would rather….

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jps61974 on February 13th, 2008 at 4:49 am

@ Manilenya,

Hahaha! Ang lagay bebe eh wla pala sa mukha ko ang mabait sa mga bata

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manilenya on February 13th, 2008 at 11:31 am

di naman hehehe mukha ka ngang anghel sa kin e kasi bait bait mo sa kin lol..sabagay ako mukha namang bata diba? lol!

manilenya’s last blog post..I’m a cover girl in a mad mag world

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jps61974 on February 13th, 2008 at 11:36 am

@ Manilenya,

bebe, you’re so lovable nga sa paningin ko eh.

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manilenya on February 13th, 2008 at 11:38 am

naks naman binola na namana ko ng bebe ko lol!!!

manilenya’s last blog post..I’m a cover girl in a mad mag world

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jps61974 on February 13th, 2008 at 11:45 am

@ Manilenya,

Hindi pambobola ang pagsasabi ng tutut… este, totoo. ang cute ng mga pics mo sa blog mo ah. mejo di ako nakapagblog-hop for almost 2 days eh. masama ang pakiramdam ko… uwi ka na bebe para may malambing naman ako dito

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manilenya on February 13th, 2008 at 11:50 am

anukaba bebe..lambingin mo asawa mo sus. kung ako hindi lambingin ng asawa ko hihiwalayan ko pramis.

di bale ayan ka na bebe mahaba na oras mo sa pag bablag hop
manilenya’s last blog post..I’m a cover girl in a mad mag world

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Jeff on February 20th, 2008 at 1:45 pm

I think you left a comment on my blog awhile back and I accidentally clicked on it bringing me here. Anyway I saw this post and had to comment on it. I just wanted to say that it is a touching post. It’s cool to see that you can be open on your blog and let everyone know about something very personal to you. Anyway, good luck in life and with your blog.

Jeff

Jeff’s last blog post..I dofollow, conditionally

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jessie on February 20th, 2008 at 6:07 pm

@ Manilenya,

Sa ngayon, mejo ok pa naman ako sa bloghopping but there are days na talagang wala akong time. hehehe!

jessie’s last blog post..Happy Valentine’s Day!

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jessie on February 20th, 2008 at 6:21 pm

@ Jeff,

Thanks for dropping by… Yeah, I have nothing to hide to anyone. Thanks for wishing me well. Take care!

jessie’s last blog post..Happy Valentine’s Day!

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