This is Not My Wife

This article is a filler, I will admit. It’s an article I promised to Kai (a fellow blogger) for how many days now but still failed to do so until up to the time this article hits its final period.

It’s something about my past. It’s something I’ve long been keeping in my picture folders for years. And it’s something my wife (present) knows very little about. Since Valentine’s day is fast approaching, one of the many people I miss so much is the child in the pictures (not her mom). She’s no child of mine (biologically) but I was there when she was born and I felt like an instant dad the moment I saw her smile on her first day of existence outside the womb. My relationship with her mother is none of your business. Hahaha!

I don’t want to elaborate on things for now. Maybe I will let you speculate. Let’s just say, the child is my child who never really was and she occupies a very special space in my heart.

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46 Comments on “This is Not My Wife”

  1. shes one lovely girl. shes fortunate enough to have a dad like you

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  2. Awww…. that’s so sweet. I love her smile. How old is she now? :-)

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  3. master ang cute ng baby…. how old she is?

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  4. Hmmmmm. I would love to speculate, hahaha! Pero it’s none of your business what’s running through my mind now, hehehe! Anyway kuya,she’s a lucky girl for having you as her dad. Whatever the story behind between her Mom and you, Im sure as hell she is grateful coz she has you in her life. Sana maambunan mo sya kahit konti ng brilliant mind mo, hehehe!

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  5. @ All,

    She’s 5 years old and growing up so beautiful… Makulit nga lang dahil matalino but she’s very sweet. Maka-’Tatay’ yan eh. :-)

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  6. How cute!! :)

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  7. Hi Jessie… I think she is gorgeous and whatever the circumstances, my wish is that you get to see her soon… perhaps for Valentines Day!

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  8. @ Buzzing with Ange,

    Thanks so much… Take good care my friend and happy blogging!

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  9. Hmmmm Kuya Jessie you are making me ponder about what you wrote hehe. Anyway, she’s lucky to have you as her “Father” figure :)

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  10. owh finally! ang cute cute! ganyan ako kabilog when i was little! haha. and my dad used to tie my hair like that! awww.. :) she’ll grow up ahem, pretty. hahaha! and im sure of that ;)

    thx for finally posting it kuya jess.

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  11. @ Elaine,

    Hehehe! Secret muna ang sagot ko dyan… But you’re right in saying that she’s lucky.

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  12. @ Kai,

    As promised… I totally agree that she’ll grow up beautiful… Ngayon pa lang eh madami nang admirers ang anak ko, how much more paglaki nya? :-)

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  13. …none of your business…I don’t want to elaborate on things for now. Hmmm, ano kaya yun *intrigued* esep, esep… :D

    Hope you get to see your adorable ‘instant daughter’ soon!

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  14. Hi Jessie..
    Hehehe.. Honestly you look handsome in that picture..I thinks because you sincere with your heart.”Smile never Lies”

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  15. One more think..Can I know how woman can inspired you to your blogging job..? :D

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  16. I’ll make a guess. Siguro pamangkin mo ang cute na batang yan o dili kaya anak ng pamangkin mo, he-he! Anyway, it’s none of my business, just making a guess gayyem.

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  17. It’s always sad when you have something in your life so great and pure and lose it…to no fault of your own. Hope this picture brings you happiness more than sadness.

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  18. cutie baby kuya.. :)

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  19. When did you last see her kuya?

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  20. adorable girl c,”) nice smile!

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  21. at least sya may tatay tatayan lol… hehehe para tuloy naghihimagsik loob ko kung bakit yung anak ko e walang tatay lol….wag ka alala bebe di ako naasar..ewan ko lang yung wife mo lol!

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  22. Nice post brother. Basta pagdating sa mga bata mababaw ang puso ko. Swerte nya at nakakita siya ng taong tulad mo. Keep up brother!

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  23. My guess, she is about 3 years old in the picture :) She’s like my daughter :)

    Good of you to find it in your heart to treat someone as your child even if biologically not yours.

    I hope, one day I would find a Man that would accept me fully, together with my children.

    Salamat sa pag bisita sa blog ko lagi :)

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  24. another glimpse of Jessie’s personal aspect!
    She’s so cute! :)
    But… I’m curious about “the” story :D

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  25. @ Amor,

    Secret ko muna yun, fren… Ayokong maging public figure. Hehehe! Basta iintrigahin muna kita for now. :-)

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  26. @ Laling,
    Thanks for the compliment. :-)
    Of course I will admit that a woman is my inspiration to write. Ironically, it’s not the woman in the photo. Hehehe!

    @ Lisa,
    Secret gayyem… Diak kayat ibaga. hahaha!

    @ Matt,
    Thanks for dropping by. You’re always welcome to drop by again.

    @ Karmi & Rickavieves,
    Mana sa kin. Hehehe!

    @ Jennie,
    I last saw her last year pa.

    @ Manilenya,
    Bebe, sanay na ang misis ko sa mga ganito. Hahaha!
    Hayaan mo, akin na ang BIODATA mo at ihanap natin ng matinong tatay ang dyunanak mo.

    @ Ambo,
    Naku, bro pareho tayo… Attached ako sa mga kids. Sana nga lumaki sya nang mabuti at matino eh. That’s my only wish for her.

    @ Shiera,
    Sis, mong mo kong intrigahin. Hahaha! Bubwelo pa ko nang matagal bago ko sabihin ang “story” behind the pictures.

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  27. mwahehehe wag na di na kailangan lol!

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  28. @ manilenya,

    Bebe,

    Darating din si Mr. Right… I’m hopeful soon eh matagpuan ka na nya. You deserve to be happy.

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  29. Na touch naman ako..You are close to Angels. Alam mo Jessie hindi lang ako ang nagkaproblema sa ie eh? Lots of bloggers. I read the issue in PPP and it was due to ITK codes. Take a read at this http://developer.payperpost.com/2008/02/internet-explor.html
    thank you very much for the concern Jessie.

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  30. @ Junelle,

    I’ll include you in my prayers my dear friend. I know how difficult it is to raise your kids on your own and I sincerely admire you for the courage and strength you’ve shown in carrying the burdens all by yourself.

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  31. @ Joy,

    I’ve read the article… Now I know. :-)

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  32. hala jessie, ammok sa dayta mom na. uray sika, ket you really look familiar . cute nga ang sarap pisilin ang pisngi.

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  33. cute sya nangurot pa hehehee

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  34. @ Madel,

    She’s my little angel…

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  35. uy tats naman ako dyan bebe…pero di ako looking wahehehehe!!!

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  36. @ manilenya,

    Hehehe! Di mo ba inakala, bebe, na malambot ang puso ko sa mga bata? :-)

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  37. di naman..di ko lang naisip lol!

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  38. @ Manilenya,

    Hahaha! Ang lagay bebe eh wla pala sa mukha ko ang mabait sa mga bata :-)

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  39. di naman hehehe mukha ka ngang anghel sa kin e :) kasi bait bait mo sa kin lol..sabagay ako mukha namang bata diba? lol!

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  40. @ Manilenya,

    bebe, you’re so lovable nga sa paningin ko eh. :-)

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  41. naks naman binola na namana ko ng bebe ko lol!!!

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  42. @ Manilenya,

    Hindi pambobola ang pagsasabi ng tutut… este, totoo. ang cute ng mga pics mo sa blog mo ah. mejo di ako nakapagblog-hop for almost 2 days eh. masama ang pakiramdam ko… uwi ka na bebe para may malambing naman ako dito :-)

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  43. anukaba bebe..lambingin mo asawa mo sus. kung ako hindi lambingin ng asawa ko hihiwalayan ko pramis.

    di bale ayan ka na bebe mahaba na oras mo sa pag bablag hop :)

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  44. I think you left a comment on my blog awhile back and I accidentally clicked on it bringing me here. Anyway I saw this post and had to comment on it. I just wanted to say that it is a touching post. It’s cool to see that you can be open on your blog and let everyone know about something very personal to you. Anyway, good luck in life and with your blog.

    Jeff

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  45. @ Manilenya,

    Sa ngayon, mejo ok pa naman ako sa bloghopping but there are days na talagang wala akong time. hehehe!

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  46. @ Jeff,

    Thanks for dropping by… Yeah, I have nothing to hide to anyone. Thanks for wishing me well. Take care!

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